So it's been a while since I wrote a blog... It's actually because there are some exciting things that have happened. I meet someone! He is an amazing man and I know he is the person I was waiting for all this time! So we meet on match.com. Yes, it works! We started chatting and we meet in dec 2021. From then it has been the best relationship I have ever had. He is mature and when he says he will do something he does it. He is sweet, kind, loving, funny, playful and most of all treats me so good. He asked me to marry him in May and I said Yes! We met at the park and he proposed at the park like the romantic man he is. He makes me want to do stuff that I never have before for anyone else. I get up early with him and make us breakfast and his lunch and dinner in the evenings... I help with laundry and I clean. I have always since I was young have been such an independent person that I thought I'm never gonna be that kind of girl. But then again I had never met anyone like Tim. It's weird because when we meet I got this peace feeling and it also happened on our 2dn date. You guys know I believe in God. I had prayed to him asking Him that when I meet my person I would have some type of feeling. And my prayer was answered. We have spent almost everyday together since feb. and I have learned a lot but mostly I learned to compromise and to put into actions what I had to learn the hard way. I'm so glad that I did the "work" before I got into this relationship. I was able to see all the anxious things I was doing before. I got realized I was the one accepting behavior that was uncalled for just because I didn't think I was enough. As soon as I saw my worth I stopped entertaining BS and started to really look for my partner in life. Once I decided what I would take and what I thought was unacceptable and what I wanted I started to be so much more successful in my picking people to really dedicate time to. That is when I found Tim. Well he found me in Oct. What I can say is that he has all the qualities I wanted and more that I didn't even know I needed. I love him so much and as time passes and I get to know him more I love him more. He makes me want to be the best version of me. We just got engaged so we aren't in a hurry to get married. I think we still have a lot to learn about each other. But just the little things because on the big things we agree on. I think this relationship is different for me because I have always been my authentic self. From the moment we met at the park I have always said what I wanted and what I felt and never kept anything away from him. And I would ask the right questions and he would answer with sincerity. And we were looking for the same thing, a partner in life. So we have had arguments but those were mostly misunderstandings. We worked through them and came out ahead. Had I known what I know now in my 20's I would have been married sooner. But I'm so happy with the man God gave me! I love him so much! He is moving in with me at the end of this month and it's exicting because I have never lived with someone before. But it has to happen, it's the next step. And when you know you want to spend the rest of your life with someone who is to say you are going too fast? I found my person and I have never been happier! I can only thank God for that...I will keep you updated if we have more news!
Love,
Gladis
